Alpha female returning to her lair with a belly full of aspiring rival (and sushi)
What Shiny, very reasonably, meant is that since my H is her employer, OW could threaten to sue him for sexual harassment and make his life difficult. But my attorney and I think she would not have a case: she had been involved with my H on and off for 1 1/2 year before going to work for him (and then he had no power over her whatsoever). Also her letters to me confess to a consensual relationship. And she cannot sue for breach of promise when she knew he was married...
As to the info, all I have is that. I am not aware of anything else, but who knows...
Yes, I got an attorney when I kicked him out and we filed for D when I found out the truth about the OW (and it was on the basis of adultery, no 'no fault' nonsense for me: it was a clear cause of fault). We have not served him yet, though. He reacted much better than I had even dreamed of and I decided to give him a chance.
And you are right, I cannot do the Tourette's thing: I lack the amplitude of vocabulary (at least in any language OW is likely to understand). And my mother would wash my mouth with soap if she heard. But I can do the 'lady-of-the-manor-on-finding-one-of-the-housemaids-cavorting-with-the-cookboy' thing to a nicety. Without straining my pinky!
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
But I can do the 'lady-of-the-manor-on-finding-one-of-the-housemaids-cavorting-with-the-cookboy' thing to a nicety. 
Without straining my pinky! 
