I was thinking more along the lines of pouring your heart out to a buddy over two bottles of wine, or bawling your guts out into a pillow in the bathroom so D1 doesn't hear you. THAT sorta thing.
LOL... I dunno man I'm just into turning that anger into something productive.
Update though:
I spoke with W for about 30 minutes. This was our first post-March legal brawl conversation. I discussed things regarding the legal situation such as cancellations, etc. and she claimed not to know that her lawyer had canceled her depositions or that she had even had others scheduled. Said she wasn't aware of the legal situation or what was happening.
I did some "no no" R-talk. Disparaged OM, the whole 9 yards.
I also told her that I didn't like her. I told her I knew she didn't like me. I don't know if our M would ever amount to much if we tried. I did tell her that we owed it to ourselves to at least go to a counselor and not let the M end due to an affair.
Got the "I'll think about it" she was giving me back in February.
It was cordial at least. She listened for the most part. Nothing accomplished other than to put the thoughts there I guess. Can't reason with an infidel.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
