My H left and went back to work, things have been okay since then. he seems mad almost everytime that I call him.
Some things were happening with me at work and I was able to vent on him and he did not do a lot of trying to 'fix' everything and tell me what I should be doing. Usually he tells me to do things that are so off the wall that I can't even comprehend where he comes up with the ideas!!
I just got a phone call form him saying that he is on his way home now. Wanted to know if I had heard if anyone was making plans for the weekend. I told him what I knew. Then he tells me that he really doesn't think he wants to do any of it and just wants to stay at home. As if!!
I stay at home all week long and take care of everything, why would I want to sit at home on the weekends? I have no kids this weekend and would really like to go camping and horse back riding. (We live 10 minutes from the state forest that we would do this in)
I have been cleaning the house and keeping things going around here and he says that he has to come home and make sure that I have taken care of everything correctly before he can even think about having any fun this weekend.
Guess I am going by myself if I can get his truck from him!!!
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09