Hey mnt, sorry to hear about your dad and the tough time you are having. I think you did the right thing in texting H to let him know. I think I would have done the same. Even if you didn't get a response you know you did the right thing. Im also glad to hear that your kids are doing great and that you enjoyed the trip.
Its interesting how it works and how God surrounds us with people, examples or situations that feel they are meant to help us or remind us of things. I have found myself looking to signs like this and finding peace as well. It helps me to know I am doing the right thing. I don't know if dreams can work in here too, but I found a similar sense of calmness Saturday afternoon after some dreams I kept having that seemed to bring positivity.
Hope the rest of your week goes ok, will keep you in my thoughts.
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
