I intend to tell him that I want him to start spending his time with the kids outside of the house, I just had no opportunity to do that yesterday, since he was with the kids and Nathan kept coming out of his bedroom.
BBJ
I think that this can't happen soon enough. Pray on it and then move on it as you feel He is leading you.
A cycle breaker has to happen.
You seem just way to composed with Dan. I realize the predominant reason is because inevitably the two little ones are almost always present.
Maybe I am reading it wrong and you are not always super composed around him but it kinda seems like you need to get that half-man alone and do whatever just naturally flows from you in terms of giving him a piece of your mind. But please dear be very very selective in making sure that you find the most gargantuan piece of your mind that you can and let it fly ...if the mood strikes of course.
I just have an inkling that with those lovely kids always insulating Dan from U that he never gets to hear what he really ought to be hearing from U.\
Hold nothing back. Create the time when you can have a "safe" tete a tete with him and let fly.
I know, being the kind of woman that you are (or I would like to think I do ..lol) that you will know just how to properly execute such a mission.
Take it up with our magnificent Lord and then carry it out.