Yes she says that I look different, act different, and talk different. I've been working out and have a new wardrobe, new haircut, I have really been reading up on relationship skills books and learning to communicate better. She says that she sees confidence now. My chest out, my head up.
I think we dismissed the MC together. He basically said oh sorry I couldn't help you, but if you both wanted to come back or if I wanted to come back I could.
We had a discussion out in the parking lot and my wife said that she felt like he was baiting me to say things that I didn't want to say. The MC kept trying to get me to say I was angry with her and that I was frustrated that my life was over, etc. I didn't take the bait.
I told her that I felt he was unprofessional in telling me how to feel.
Another interesting thing that happened that night is in the session he kept baiting my wife and said you guys have to detach now if you are going through this (little does he know, I already detached) that I will be completely devastated. She mentioned, "I tried to tell him we should sleep in seperate beds." I then mentioned that when "we spoke the other night she had said that she asked if it was wierd if we were still sleeping in seperate beds."
We got home and watched a movie together. I then told her I understand her need for space if she would like for me to sleep in a seperate room. She smile and said "No, let's go to bed."
