You regained trust in your husband because he made changes that addressed the issues you had problems with. Were they small changes/big changes? Was it about helping more around the house (maybe i'm blind but I don't ever this as being a dealbreaker), was it about him listening more and talking less (communication issue), was it about emotional support and if so specifically what kind of emotional support, was it an attraction issue: he let himself go and you felt like you were settling?
Yes I'm nosey but you are giving us gold here, it's very good stuff.
Geez, Rob, what are you, on a mission from God or something??
Mrs. Torantino's house
Jake: Mrs. Toronto? Mrs. Torantino: Torantino. Jake: Ma'am, do you have a Thomas Malone or Louis Marini living here? Mrs. Torantino: Not any more they moved out a long time ago. I don't take in borders, not for a long time. Jake: Did they leave a forwarding address? A phone number? Mrs. Torantino: No. Elwood: Did they live quietly? What were there personal habits? Mrs. Torantino: They were good boys, but they made a lot of racket at night. Are you the police? Elwood: No ma'am. We're musicians.