Why would my W be telling everyone that the M is over and getting a D, yet the only thing she says to me is "can't predict the future"? seems to me, she knows the future.....
thanks. she is not even saying anything to friends.....but it is unnerving. i mean, if that is what she wants, i say go ahead and start the papers. we have a legal S agreement that can double as the D decree. it has not been signed though. she was all h-bent to get one in place, we have been following it, yet she has not said anything about signing it and executing it. the mediator won't even file it with the courts. aaaaaarrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhhh
...but it is unnerving. i mean, if that is what she wants, i say go ahead and start the papers. we have a legal S agreement that can double as the D decree. it has not been signed though. she was all h-bent to get one in place, we have been following it, yet she has not said anything about signing it and executing it. the mediator won't even file it with the courts. aaaaaarrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhhh
Is this what you're showing her?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
i am not showing anything. the S agreement has been done, yet she has not approached me about signing it other than the time the mediator e-mailed it out to us. couldn't coordinate times (i am not taking off work again for that). the question is my outloud voice. however not too long ago (been S for about 3 months)if i said something like that to her, her retort is, "it sounds like that is what you want." thanks for letting me vent. better on a server somewhere than near her or in an e-mail!!
