Thanks Jon, you made me feel better. I was afraid I would ruin the Dbusting thing but I don't have a choice. He isn't taking on any of the financial stuff that is both of ours and I can't afford to pay the monthly bill for D's braces on my own. I will do what you say, I'm just a little nervous on how to act when I do see him. If he even shows....and would if his lovely step-mother and father are there? Any advice?
So much going on in my head right now. But I did have a have decent time this weekend. I did think of him a lot but was also able to get my mind off of him constantly. My D and I went on a weekend with my brother and sister-in-law. And we had a good time for the first time in a long time.
What I'm also afraid of is some of the things that Phoen said above, maybe he doesn't contact because I don't mean a thing to him.
Hi beepee,
There is always hope, and it might just take your H a while to realize what he has done. You are making changes to better yourself for your marriage and he will see that sooner or later. You are just at the beginning, give yourself some time and him too. I made all of the mistakes that you made also, but great people on this site like Jon for instance will help you get through this.
If you want him back, just keep doing Dbusting and it will make a big difference. I just wish I knew about the books and this site when the bomb hit me. You are at a great place here and the people are wonderful and caring. Thank you so much for sharing your story, and I'm trying my best to be patient. Wish I could get you to talk to my H and get it through to him that meds and C help. lol I need some of your strength, how about sending some my way.
