Optomist,

I'm so sorry. There could be 100 explanations, you know, other than the one prancing around in your head.

Focus on the facts you have, he spent the night with you, it is you he wants. He is still sorting out the garbage in his head.

Keep low key, don't escalate the incident to a problem. Observe him, but keep working on you. What are your goals, what are you doing for you?

Jackie