How Do You Make Someone Want Something?

How do you make someone want something?

Do you offer it to them?

Do you tell them how great it is?

Do you try to convince them first?

How do you do it?

You might think that diamonds are valuable and in demand because they are precious and expensive and because they’re beautiful, but in fact their value comes from their scarcity…
What originally made them interesting, what originally made them beautiful,and what originally made people WANT them was that there was nothing else like them.

You exhibited broken man, insecure, wuss like behaviors and equated yourself to the same value of alot of other men out there that are in the same boat.

Since you have lower value in her perception, she doesn't want you anymore. How do you make yourself more attractive to her (and i'm not talking about physical looks here either).