Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

Tips on weight loss??? well the best thing that has worked for me is just watching the calorie intake. If you just take a couple of days and actually right down everything you eat and how many calories you have, well you would be in shock! I was. So, Basically I dont go over 1,000 calories a day...when I get where I wanna be I will go up to 1,200. IT just takes some time and lots of self control...and it also helps me take my mind off other things.

Also, I took my son out of tkd for my son. The flirting my H was doing there was just the push I needed. Of course I did not do it for him. It helps me not to see him so much. I had to take him off my FB...of course he hasnt noticed, if he has, he probably wanted me off of there anyway, because he hasnt said anything. Im much better when I dont know what's going on in his life....now the only thing i hear is what my children tell me when they come home, which hurts, but I have to deal with that.

I do still text him...but only to respond to him most of the time. I just dont think I would be able to cut him out completely. I can only do that when Im mad anyway!

Im so excited to say Im going on vacation with my friends the weekend after next!! To the beach we go!!! A whole weekend with no kids or H's!! yay!!