This night owl slept in til nearly 2 p.m. today...not exactly smart when I have to be up at 7:30 tomorrow!
Tell me, have you checked out any of Talista's threads? The OW in her sitch works with her H as well. She'll have LOTS of insights on this one I'm sure.
Personally, I think the approach you outlined sounds good. It is not overwhelming, not controlling, not TELLING him what to do...just outlining that this IS a problem that needs solving.
Why not post to Tal and ask for her feedback?
(If you want a REAL howl...check back on Tal's thread to about July to see the stunt she and her H pulled AT the OFFICE to put OW firmly in her place )
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