i don't know how to respond to that. she has her days. her dad has been coming to our house (ok, hers with the kids for now) and mowed the yard for her. she physically cannot do it. she is honestly at the point where she needs help around the house with stuff. laundry is piled up (she can't continually go up and down steps)the house unfortuantely smells a little like dog (have 2 of them). i guess she has to figure out if she wants me. i wholeheartedly believe she does as hse needs to just get over the hurt from me smoking again and lying about it which caused her to think, he wants a D. That is because she said if it happens again, I will D you. FYI, i have successfully quit since my birthday back in may.
so you are the expert on adhd? how do i get my W to understand that the last few months were not me, not who I really am? I was on a psychostimulant that i should not have been on, yet wasn't aware of it. she says you cannot use that as an excuse. i say, well, it was a very large contributing factor. since i have been on different meds, my 9 year old brought tears to my eyes when she said, "daddy, why are you being so nice to us?" so i explained to her that she takes medicine to help her breathe, mommy takes a lot of medicine to help her, and i take medicine to help me. told her i was on the wrong medicine for me, but didn't know that until recently. so i take different medicine that helps me. she said, "well, i love you anyway, and i am glad you are nice." i hugged her, went to the bathroom and cried.....
