If she isn't moving out or starting D...how do I handle my end...wait, start preparing myself for D, nothing????
You keep working on yourself. The less you focus on what she may or may not do, the better off you will be.
I think that time works differently for a WA/MLCer. What seems like an eternity to you is only about 20 minutes to them. Patience is going to be one of your most important tools.