Thanks, this helps. Yes, I'm very happy with the changes I've made. But, I do want to do more GAL stuff that makes me happy.
As far as the OM goes, I'm 99% sure there is no more contact. I do have some ways of verifiying this, but probably not 100%.
You are right Puppy. She has told me that she is "mourning" the loss of her PA/EA with this OM. But, she is getting to the point where she is angry that his wife doesn't know and he is not having to deal with all that we are going through including some of our friends knowing about the EA..not the PA part.
Today, she went to have lunch with her Dad in the same town that this guy is from (My W and he are went to high school together and reconnected on FB). She said she was sick to her stomach that she might bump into him at the gas station or McDonalds, etc.
Question:
If she isn't moving out or starting D...how do I handle my end...wait, start preparing myself for D, nothing????
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
