Here is the problem with that - She tends to resisit anything that I suggest saying that I am pressuring her or forcing it.

Any thoughts on how I can present this in a way that would not come across to her as pressuring or forcing. I think the next Retrouvaille weekend is August 9th in my area.

Also, now that I am wearing my wedding ring again and sleeping in my bed...should I just continue with the changes I was working on during MC and be nice, upbeat, and friendly?

Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms