Update: There is more than just my junk on my wife's shoulders. I've just had two phone calls from an unknown number looking for Mrs Elsebe Vervoer. Rough translation from Afrikaans - Elsebe TRANSPORT. This is the name of my wife's old company.

They wouldn't give the details of the call simply saying it's a legal matter. I know that Malindi racked up a bill of R20,000 ($2,400) in cell phone bills through that company that attorneys are trying to recover. She does NOT know that I know.

I have a feeling that my wife is keeping something very close to her chest in the hopes of saving me and our home.

I told her once before - I'll live in a tent so long as it's with you! I also had the pleasure of two large guys in a 4x4 visit early last year looking for her father. The last time we had a break from each other!

How do I bring this up with her?

Bum! This is getting more complicated as time goes on!

Things beyond her control are catching up with her but I'll stand by her until the sun goes out!