Home for just two days and he can't resist being abusive:

"He got defensive/mad and took his box of cards and the bible. He said, you can write all the cards in the world but I wanted support from you and instead I got nagging and questioning all my decisions" and he left."

I suppose keeping up the house, yard, and children while he is out of town or doing his own thing is not being supportive. He makes me angry just hearing about him. Blech.