I know Mishka...Im trying to get to that point, but i have to be sure first. Trust me, I have been battling with that decision for a couple of months now....Im getting closer...Im thinking that therapy will help me too.
I just gotta be sure first.
I so understand how you feel. For many here the decision to file was taken from them and the only choice was to respond to protect themselves or the kids or assetts.
There is another group that have spouses that leave (physically and/or emotionally) but do not file. We don't know their reasons for staying legally connected to us. It seems to leave hope within us that if they don't do anything legally or follow thru on it just maybe they are coming back. That hope doesn't have to be a bad thing!
I've often said it took me a long time to stop spinning my wheels and being stuck in ruts. Finally, I got going and have been moving forward with my life while leaving room for H to come with me.
kissak, the things you are doing - tkd, FB, not txting - it's all fine if it is to make your life better. If it's to get a reaction from your H then you already know that it's the wrong action. What is best for you?
Congrats on the weight loss!!! any special tips to pass along?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
