I had posted initially in Infidelity but Dagny suggested I move over here. It seems that my sitch is getting better and your collective experience in the M reconstruction business will be needed.
To summarize: m 12 years, 1 D4. Separated 3/19/03. Bomb 5/7/03: he has had a 5 y EA with an employee. He had left her 4/20 but still works with her. I discovered DB/DR in Aug, he moved back in 8/17/03. Piecing since I guess... my optimistic self (self-deprecating ).
One hopeful event which ends my other post. We went to the movies last night. ('Once upon a time in Mexico': great for anger management; they kill about 2 people every minute for no particular reason, but it is fun). With Jackie's advice in mind, I told H that I appreciated the effort he was making and he answered "it is no effort". So I seems we are piecing after all...
If only I could get rid of the OW's shadow presence... At least I am getting better at not mentioning it . Glass half full...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
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At least I am getting better at not mentioning it 
