Hey BBJ,

every time I read about your kids I get a lump in my throat....quite honestly i am confused with the amount of time you and dan spend as a family (disney, back from a busines trip and wants to bring over supper). I am not at all surprised that the kids are as well. I am no expert but the sooner they know that their parents live in different houses for the foreseable future, the better off they will be in my opinion...especially if they see a happy mom. BBJ, I know you are doing the best you can but you need to distance yourself from Dan...if not for you for the kids.....does that make sense?