Thanks. I am going to try not to talk to him unless he initiated some kind of talk related to the children. He is only back for 2 days anyway...
Tonight is 'his' night, he is coming to meet us at the kids' swim lessons. I would leave when he gets there but it is the last night and they get their awards. But as soon as it is over I am out of there and he gets to keep them the rest of the evening and put them to bed. I don't want another bed time like last night....