Yep, another WAW - in last resort

[lonelywolf]

One interesting development, the pastor/bishop/whatever/clergy dude in charge of the church she's attending with her parents actually gave me a call and said that she had actually talked with her about me, and he had encouraged her to call me and try to work it out. However, that was the day before she told me she wanted a divorce - I wonder if I had backed off and not sent a dozen e-mails and left half a dozen phone messages that same day, if she might have heeded his advice.

The clergy dude said he'd keep encouraging her to work it out rather than run straight to divorce, so there's that at least (though I doubt she's listening to anyone but her parents at this point).

Well, barring an emergency, I'm holding off contacting her until next month, since I'm in last resort. Clearly, bombarding her with e-mails and messages is a cheeseless tunnel.

I just know our two oldest kids will breakdown and freak out once she lets them know, though I doubt it will move her. I can even imagine S7's reaction - he'll promise to be good and never mess up again if only she'll let me come back. He's rather sensitive and doesn't like conflict. He can't stand to watch cartoons or TV at all because he doesn't like the conflict (I took him to see "UP" and he said he didn't like it because there was fighting and the only part he liked was the end when everyone was okay).