thanks sanderika. the thing is, i am "as if" with him. i never question him, never mention her. never.

BUT the bills are an issue. i have given him plenty of time, they are now 2 months late. we need money here. our house is foreclosing. so everything that was said yesterday was justified and in response for his absurd comment about the furniture.

i do not know when i will see him again. im assuming either friday or sunday. i have not called him or texted him.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09