interesting kerry...he may appear again to want to come back. he appears that way most of the time. but its clear he doesnt realize what i am entitled to and what he is entitled to.

so when that is shown to him, he may second guess himself.

im waiting to talk to my lawyer. i want to tell him that we are in no position to work on a separation/divorce, we do not have the finances to fund the retainers because right now, we need to get out of our foreclosing house and set up somewhere else.

i would like to receive support right now, and when son and i are settled in a new place, consider a fair settlement.

I WILL NOT enter into an agreement quickly because we cant fund a fair battle. i will not enter into an agreement while he is not working an upstanding job, like he always has.

for all i know, he will choose a deli counter and my cs will be based on it. then he will go to an upstanding job, and i will then have to fight in court to get the cs changed.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09