Which brings up another thought: It seems like their would be an extremely fine line between "showing" that you fighting for your marriage and pursuing?
Especially if your WAW is potentially in this mode of "I want my H to show me he is fighting for the M." To me it could almost be subconscious that a WAW wants this. Maybe not.
My W is still very resentful that I did not make a lot of these changes sooner. She has expressed this several times. If it was so easy to do...why did you not do them sooner? How can you change so much in 3-4 months?