Yes, you are going to have to lay off the R talk and if she initiates it then fine. If she initiates more of it in the future and it covers the same ground consistently then it is in your best interest to 'stop' the conversation ("Oh I have plans to go a stress management seminar" or "It was nice talking we should do it again but I have to take care of something".. something along those lines). She probably feels you are like another child instead of an adult H. My W said that to me during the bomb. And as you probably are well aware of ppl with ADHD often exhibit childlike behavior. Anyway, with that being the case more than likely it looks like you are going to have to win back her respect.
