The first thing she did after talking to me last night was email her old highschool friend(girl) to vent. She took alot of the things that I said the wrong way I guess. She told her friend that I keep digging to see if she is having an affair! Then she said that I was fighting her for joint custody(true). Then she said that when I have them on the weekends I only have them for about 24 hours and that I dont act like someone who wants joint custody(not true). I am staying at my sisters house and it tears me up to see my 22 month old trying to sleep in a house that she is not familiar with. She cries for her mommy and wakes up 4 or 5 times a night. So yeah, I dont want to put my kids through this- so now I am a bad guy that doesnt want to be a dad?
She then told her friend how bad this f-ing sucks. She told her friend to remind her of this if she ever gets married again. I really feel hopeless right now. She doesnt seem to believe any of the changes that I have made. She also NEVER tells her friend about all of the good things I have done for my family. I guess that would make me look good wouldnt it??:)
What should I do now? Ask her on a date? hahha
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final