Thanks Sandi. I think you are validating some of my feelings.
I also found a note a couple of weeks ago that was in the garbage: It was from a friend of hers that read: JDopp is "crazy" for not realizing what he is about to lose.
Also in MC, W made mention of how much attention I was paying towards my D's, it seemed to aggravate her.
Sandi some of these things just go completely against what seems to be the standard in DBing. Wouldn't some of these actions be considered pursuing????
180's to show I am fighting for M
Become more responsible with money. Get more involved. She is the one that handles the checking account. I could offer to do the bills every other week.
Ask her out to the movies (We quit doing this).
Ask her on a family outing (She asked me out on a weekend family outing last weekend after she said she went to a D attorney?).
Schedule a MC session on my own. Ask her to go. If she doesn't agree, explain to her that I am going this first session because I understand that one person can help save a marriage?
Take a stand against our credit card bill and take action against it.
Let me know what you think? Are they too agressive. Too much pursuing?
