BM....it's new for anyone here. My job is to do the right thing for the kids.

This morning, I woke up...and I stared at my bedroom. I stared out the window...looked at the decorative molding and work done in the BMR....felt the warmth and comfort of my bed...and, like a prisoner on deathrow, began to feel my time slipping thru my fingers.

Loss....not of my M/STBXW...but my home...and time with my kids. It is around the corner.

Mr. Spock...in Star Trek..once said....the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the one (?KerryK?). The needs of my children....outweigh my needs and, I, like many here...and other men....will most likely have to 'forfeit' my home to an angry and vindictive person who wants something for nothing.

Fighting, for this...in NY....would be costly and at what price?

AV8R Jeff........

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;