Well, I don't really consider myself to be reconciling at this point. I'm still ready for whatever could come next because I have learned, you just don't know and there could be anything around the corner.
My H left home to move in with a friend in late November. He has his own place now and says he still needs a couple of months to figure things out. So it's was 8 months before my H said he wanted to come home. But honestly at this point, if he said I want to come home NOW, I would say no. We still have a lot to figure out, work out and do. As a couple and as individuals. So not out of the woods yet, but things have been good to great. He's making an effort and making decisions with me in mind.
What are some of the things you are seeing out of your H in terms of "whacky behavior"?
