Sandi, I completely understand, and as tough as it may be at times, I have never not accepted my part in this. I know exactly what you mean, based on the conversation when W feels that I am no accepting enough. I try to choose my words very carefully, and I try to have my key phrases ready to go at any given moment. The validations and such.
PDT, I never expected to see it so easily and so early. I did not realize what it was until she told me.