it refers to when i actually do something, like request what i am entitled to.
so in addition to child support and maintenance, i want the entire 401k and all items in our home....from what i understand it is what im requesting to pay back the marital waste and money owed from the store.
he will be in for a shock when he sees what i have documented, how much information i have gathered that he doesnt think will be held against him.
if we lived in a different state he would be ok, but ny is a fault state. he would have been lucky if i was willing to mediate.
i dont want to proceed with a separation/divorce, but i think i have decided that i will file a motion for immediate support.
and he can claim he isnt working, but the judge will wonder how his cars are being paid...
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09