It sounds like you're getting some good advice re. your H.
On a side note, have you heard of or read the book entitled The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time by Mark Haddon? I listened to it on audio last week. It's a fictional story as told from the perspective of a teenage boy with Asperger's. I found it interesting, even though the author is an atheist who expresses his bias through the young protagonist's thoughts. And the adults often say a number of curse words that are also inappropriate for younger readers. Other than that I found myself interested in the mystery this boy attempts to solve and the way his AS comes to play as a key component for how he approaches things.
