Yes, those are the words that scared me before we went. I saw them in the letter, and I thought, "Oh no!, We can't go. He'll never agree to that." But I imagine she has already heard those words. The Retrouvaille person she spoke to almost certainly used them when he spoke to her. You've done a tremendous job in not over-pushing this. She's agreed to go. I like what she said, "I guess no one ever comes away from it saying "I wish I hadn't done it." It's OK to go with that little enthusiasm. Just walk in the door, make it through the first night, and then things will start to get better.
