Shocked, I understand what you are saying. During FWH's EA/PA, I found comfort and peace in knowing that nothing I could do would be worse than what FWH would face during judgement. (vengeance is mine saith the Lord). I was then able to give my FWH and MOW over to God and found myself praying for them and forgiving them. I knew that the person God was molding me into would be a better person with or without FWH. Fortunately for FWH, it was with him . But God also molded him into a better husband (once he pulled his head out of his a-- and repented) and our marriage is better than it ever was. God is good and faithful. He not only restored our marriage, but made it into the kind of marriage He designed us for.
. But God also molded him into a better husband (once he pulled his head out of his a-- and repented) and our marriage is better than it ever was. God is good and faithful. He not only restored our marriage, but made it into the kind of marriage He designed us for.
