I've been thinking of you a lot and wondering what was up. I didn't in my wildest dreams imagine you'd be going through this though.
Girl I know it hurts now, but you will be the one laughing in 5 years time when you are settled down with a loving partner, enjoying your middle years together and your H will be running around after a pre-schooler. Who would you rather be?
Your kids will be OK. In some ways it may be good for them (I'm not sure how, but I reckon everything has lessons in it we need to learn).
It's a bit of a shocker it's happened while he's not even divorced though? I wonder if it were a "surprise" or an "accident".
Allison, you are a good woman and you have a bright future - you just have to believe that.
Thinking of you.
Take care, Virginia
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.