Yes, it did....thanks. You are so right about her own mental a$$ kicking. I think that that "was" part of my punishment.....the "self-induced" is terrible. I'll have to say that the Lord was very, very murciful to me! That's not to say that my sins did not find me out or that it didn't do damage to more than just myself. That's why I said that she'll get her punishment.
For your sake....."yours".....you work hard at not holding on to bitterness, okay? The detaching will help (I think) b/c it will get you moving in the right direction. People who harbor hard feelings don't move forward in their life and the bitterness eats like a cancer. It is absolutely horrible what it can do to a person.
Just wanted you to be okay.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!