when you speak to him, be short and to the point. it always sounds like your trying too much with words to explain yourself. he really doesn't deserve an explaination, I think you just need to state the facts as briefly as possible, I needs it as simplified as possible.
and for the most part use action. obviously calling his mom ended up getting him to do what needed to be done. of course he was pissed, and I wouldn't always advise calling his mother, but, this is for the sake of your baby.
on a good note, it is good to see that the OW has at least the decency to make sure he pays you, even if it were for selfish reasons (the fact that he blew her money), cuz she could be the other way around.
so how long will it be before he pays CS the court way and you won't have to mess with all the craziness? or wait, is he still unemployed?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
