Just thinking out loud - between the graduation, the lack of a job, and a new kid, my wife may be suffering from some sort of PPD combined with a serious fear of what the future may hold. I don't know if actually landing a good job would help or not though. She's in a very negative place. A lot of the posts on these boards seem to indicate it's likely the spouse is not as negative as her words would indicate, but I just don't know. I do know her parents can't be helping.
I'm writing the kids letters every week, and they aren't turning those away, so that's something.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053