Just thinking out loud -
between the graduation, the lack of a job, and a new kid, my wife may be suffering from some sort of PPD combined with a serious fear of what the future may hold. I don't know if actually landing a good job would help or not though. She's in a very negative place. A lot of the posts on these boards seem to indicate it's likely the spouse is not as negative as her words would indicate, but I just don't know. I do know her parents can't be helping.

I'm writing the kids letters every week, and they aren't turning those away, so that's something.


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053