Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

In my opinion, it doesn't matter why a person goes to Retrouvaille, as long as the go with an open mind and a willing heart.

Hi Sara,

I have to admit that the two parts you mention above - an Open Mind and a willing heart trouble me a bit.

Right now I don't see my W's mind as being open to new ideas or new thoughts about the R. In fact, I see her aggressively close off ideas and thoughts that come from me or from our C.

I also don't see her heart as being open. I have spent a long time bouncing off a high, strong wall she has built around it.

I am optimistic, but for these reasons my expectations are somewhat reduced.

Thanks for your continued support and advice - it really helps.