Glad to see you took your time responding. Good Job!
I just wanted to say that I totally relate to your being annoyed at H always adding "if YOU want to" or some such nonsense statement.
I decided my H says that to me bc - of the 2 of us, only I am clear about what I want. He has no clue as to what he is doing and what he wants....I keep thinking of him as the deranged homeless man....and all of a sudden it makes sense that he would always add that statement!
Imagine a homeless deranged man having a lucid moment and asking to meet up? I think his insecurity would make him add "if you want to".
Know what I mean? I wish you a great day tomorrow!
