Thanks fellow Wahoo. That is actually some very good advice andeven though I hope she isn't that VERY far off, I'd better prepare myself as if she is. She is certainly acting like we are divorced. So, today I stop being a repentent doormat and start standing up to this madness. I am beginning to realize that she has alot of reponsibility for this mess too, AND she is the one who left for OM, so...if she thinks she can just jump from my bed to his she will have to support me and the kids until I can. Thanks for your help. How do I make you a buddy?


Separated 40 y.o. man who blames himself for his WAW and hopes to reunite and repair relationship and family.