So my sister had her 7th baby tonite. Its a baby girl. My sister got to the hospital at 5:45 and the baby was born at 5:52 while my sister was in the restroom. Talk about a quick delivery. Her doctor arrived 15 minutes later. She and the baby are doing good. So that makes 4 girls and 3 boys for them. Wow. They all live in Charlotte NC.
So today is cause for thanking the Lord for another addition to the family. My daughters were very excited about their new cousin. They asked when we were going to go visit. I said I don't know at this point. But we will eventually.
I didn't tell W about it. She doesn't want to know what is going on in my life. So I just told my daughters.
There is a lot to be thankful for today.
Kevin
Yes there is. (SO Who cares whether your w knows? )
Keep on doing what you are doing. Yes you do backslide and maybe it's more than some others do. But you are also making progress. So keep it up and don't berate yourself so much and maybe, just maybe you don't have to apologize to your wife for much anymore. WE can tell you that the church question was controlling/hypocritical, but you don't have to point out your every mistake and flaw to your w (that's HER JOB!! --kidding)
just carry on and she'll eventually notice the new confident Kevin, when we do.
Or maybe a little later. But she will notice but that is NOT why you'll be doing it, is it? Of course not. GLAD you read the detachment piece. Keep reading it til it's second nature if you have to.
You will make it Kevin, I think. That's a big step for ME to think. (See Pup, I give high fives to him!!)
Seriously, more or less -forward and backward--you are getting thru this...
(( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
