Thanks, it's nice to know other people do care. I'm certainly learning a lot of empathy for people in my situation.

I'm 99.99% sure there's no OM in this case, though I would guess the financial stability offered by her parents "sort-of" makes them something like a sugar daddy in comparison to me.

I am definitely going to make some changes in my life so that I become a better person. Even if it doesn't get her back, paying off the credit cards can only do me good, and I could certainly learn how to control my temper (not violent, but yelling certainly doesn't endear one to others).


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053