Jimbo- I appreciate you checking up on me. I'm trying not to do anything monumentally stupid in this state of emotional turmoil.
I got mail from the court today regarding me getting served. Apparently it's not enough to be served in person, you have to get the follow-up mail as well. I'm trying to just let it go. This was followed by an email from my W about a bill ... did I pay it or not. I was planning on paying it anyway, since I had agreed to it. Here's the thing. She now wants all correspondence to go through email. WTF? She's avoiding phone or text messages like I have some sort of fatal disease. In my head I'm thinking of telling her ... I will no longer respond by email. (or - i have blocked your email) If you have a question, call me. I get that this is about control for her. I should probably let it go. But I HATE, absolutely ABHOR, being told how things are gonna go. She gets everything on her terms. This has been her MO since she left. I get no say, she dictates all the terms. Am I just being vindictive? Do I just give her what she wants or do I fight her on it and make her do it my way?
