So, can someone give me advice about how to handle her/what to say to her? She has not ever admitted to affair with OM. Should I ask her point blank? Do I continue to apologize and ask for forgiveness or do I start going on the offensive? I want to maintain our frienship at least, but I don't want to be her doormat. What approach works best with a WAW? I want her to respect me and the improvements I have made so she will at least consider getting counseling and giving it another chance. Neither one of us has really talked to an attorney or filed yet. Is there still hope?
Separated 40 y.o. man who blames himself for his WAW and hopes to reunite and repair relationship and family.