Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Thanks Sandi. No more contact with H. Don't know if I'm going to bring up the cell phone password being changed. It's not like it matters right now anyway. I already have proof of the phone calls and if it ever gets to a nasty divorce, we can subpoena the rest of 'em. On the flip side, if H ever wants to work on the M, he'll have to give me the password cause I won't trust him for a long time.

I don't think I sounded too upbeat on the phone. I just wanted to get across the point that getting away did me good. In no way did I give him any relief from the guilt he might be feeling.

I think if I don't stop the sex, he will continue to take me for granted/use me. Seeing as he had said before (re: sex) "This doesn't change anything" I'd be pretty darn stupid to continue. I thought it was bringing us closer but after what happened on Friday, it's clear it hasn't made a difference.