thank you everyone for your input. i'm not trying to get the cart before the horse here, but what happens after i've went this route for a few days? is she going to be blowing up my phone? is she just going to show up? i know you don't know the answer exactly to this, but what should i be looking for that should happen? and once it does, THEN WHAT?
i want to know what was going through her head when she decided that was it and she made the decision to just leave. until i know that, there is no reconciliation from me, and right now she's gonna have to earn that back from me. I AM NOT going to just let her slip her way back in here because that isn't going to change ANYTHING.
not trying to be a butthead, but i want to know what i should expect from her and what to look for. me playing hard to get isn't going to make her grow up, which she has a lot of that to do before we get back together.